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아이파크에서 자살한 삼성전자 최고 임원도 아마 이 불안이라는 감정을 통제하지 못하고 뛰어내린 것이 아닐까? 절대적으로 높고 낮은 자리가 아니라 세상이 생각하는 그 가치와 내가 받아들여야 하는 그 가치에 대하여...기대에 못미쳤을 때 느끼는 불안, 그리고 비록 지금은 가지고 있더라도 언제라도 이건 진정한 내것이 아니라는 것을 잘 알기 때문일 것이다.
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